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When I was a young girl my mom had (the talk) with me. No! not the sex talk but the talk about starting my period, my menstrual cycle. She talked to me about what it was and why us women have them. Around the time she figured I would start we prepared for it and bought everything I needed before it came. I was anticipating when it would come and what I would be doing around the time it came. I thought about what if it came in any place except home and how embarrassing it woul

This is a Message to a "Strong Black Woman". This may not relate to all Strong Black Women. This is from my perspective but not general. But here is my message to her "Strong Black Woman" I don't feel like that phrase is a compliment to you when its used in this context. This phrase has been celebrated. Now don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with a Woman being strong mentally. physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I have no issue with that. I have a issue when

July 9th 2017 made it our First Year Anniversary! We made it our first year. You know when people say that the first year is the worst. For us it wasn't the worst! I wouldn't describe it like it's the most terrible thing ever. What do you expect when 2 different people are coming together trying to become unified. I have never grown so much in my life. I've grown so much as an individual and as A wife already. The biggest thing that My husband and I have learned in this first

It was two weeks before our wedding. I remember leaving my mom's house where I stayed at the time. I was on the way to my Father in law house. Out of no where I just started crying. Every since Marc and I decided that It was best for me to live in Indiana I don't think it really hit me until it was almost time for me to leave. I was thinking to myself as I was crying I'm really about to live in a new state, on top of with no family there. I was about to make two major steps a

Marc has and always is very creative. He can sing, write music, make clothes if he wanted to. He's a video producer, video editor, "the sound guy" and all that entails. Anything that has to do with being artistic and creative he can do and if he doesn't know how to do something he will learn. Most of the skills he has he taught himself how to do because he loves it. Art and creativity is the best way Marc expresses himself. On top of all of that he's an extrovert. He loves to

Around the time when My husband and I were dating, Marc was working at a church and doing little side gigs but I don't think he really had a vision of what he wanted to do with his gifts. I've seen some old work that he did with short films and video editing and It looked like he really enjoyed what he was doing. He was so excited with what he was doing then and I think he had a vision but just didn't know how to birth it out or how to get to the next level. Around the time w